ok...so i realize that even posting about this shows just how pathetic i am...but i think i'm ok with that.yesterday while i was sorting through my mountains of mail at work i decided that i would watch the bachelor online. i was super excited about the finale because i just knew he was going to pick melissa, and she was my favorite! so i was all about the finale (except for deanna showing up at the last minuet...who does she think she is?), until i started watching "after the final rose". what the (excuse my language) hell?!! who does that? i can understand if it doesn't work out...sure go ahead and break it off....but not on TV and then don't make yourself look like a bigger ass by turning around and asking the girl you sent home to give you another shot!!! hello?! and then all he can say is "i'm sorry"? i don't think he is all that sorry....but thats just me. maybe the whole thing was planned out and the show just wanted to create a little more drama...but wow. anyone else have an opinion?